Safe & caring messaging
Your messages, your consent, your pace.
At WishPride, an exchange only matters if it's wanted on both sides. Here's everything you can set — for everyone, regardless of gender.
You choose who talks to you, and how
“Who can message you”
Everyone, your mutual connections, the people you follow, or no one. Reversible in a single tap.
Advanced mode
Only accept first messages from certain profile types and an age range — without ever revealing your criteria.
A first message that counts
We encourage a thoughtful first contact, and a gradual pace calms anyone piling up messages without a reply.
Say “no” without awkwardness
Ready-made, kind replies to politely decline in a single tap.
Read receipts on your terms
Turn them on or off, conversation by conversation. You read without pressure.
Your photos, your consent
Nothing without your approval
No one sends you a photo in private without permission. You accept, decline, and can revoke access at any time.
You see what you choose to see
Sensitive images arrive blurred by default, with a simple “tap to reveal”. Nothing forces itself onto your screen.
Disappearing photos
A moment, then nothing
Choose 2, 3, 5, 10 or 20 seconds: the photo disappears after opening, on both sides.
The sender stays informed
You know when your photo has been seen, then erased.
As everywhere, no app can prevent a screenshot: disappearing photos are shared in good faith.
Healthier groups
A warm welcome
Every newcomer is greeted with a welcome message.
Photos under control
An admin can disable photo sending for the whole group.
Sensitive actions protected
Clearing messages for everyone is reserved for admins, with a clear warning.
Consistent roles
Group admins are also admins in its chat.
Why all this?
Because respect should never be optional.
Our community is mostly women, and too many spaces online let pushy or unwanted messages ruin the experience.
We put consent, respect for pace and peace of mind at the heart of messaging — for everyone, regardless of gender.
No ratings, no rankings, no judgement. Just simple tools so every exchange stays free and pleasant.
Frequently asked questions
Messaging, made clear
Who can message me on WishPride?
You decide: everyone, only your mutual connections, your subscriptions, or no one. It's reversible at any time, and an advanced mode filters first messages by profile type and age range — without ever revealing your criteria.
Are my private photos protected?
Yes. No one can send you a private photo without your consent. Sensitive images arrive blurred by default, with a simple “tap to reveal”, and you can revoke access at any time.
How do disappearing photos work?
You choose a duration (2, 3, 5, 10 or 20 seconds): the photo disappears after opening, on both sides. The sender is notified once it's been seen and erased. As everywhere, no app can prevent a screenshot: these photos are shared in trust.
Can I decline a conversation without awkwardness?
Yes. Ready-made, kind replies let you politely say no in one tap, and you turn read receipts on or off, conversation by conversation. You read without pressure.
Is secure messaging only for women?
No. These tools protect everyone, regardless of gender. Our community is mostly women, but consent and respect for each person's pace apply to all — women, men, couples and the LGBTQ+ community.
Ready to connect with confidence?
Free, no credit card. You keep full control from the moment you sign up.