Being desirable isn't about extra pounds, fewer centimeters, or perfect measurements.

We're sold impossible beauty standards, but the truth is that being desirable has nothing to do with centimeters or kilos. Desire is about energy, about the way you take up space, own your body, and vibrate. A glance, self-assurance, the way you are fully yourself... that's what changes everything. The trap is that when you keep finding flaws in yourself, you end up stopping yourself from living. You forbid yourself from wearing that pretty lingerie because you think you don't have the right body, you put off swinging for fear of other people's gaze, or you freeze about a threesome for fear of being judged by the third person. We sabotage ourselves and miss out on so much pleasure and fantasies to bring to life because of complexes that often exist only in our heads.