In the Silence of the Ropes

Thank you so much for creating this group around shibari. For me, shibari is much more than a sexual act: it is an art that is lived intensely by two people, in trust and attention. For once, we really take the time. The time to settle in properly, to feel the ropes being placed, the caresses, the breath and the breathing. We even sometimes notice the little hesitations of the person tying the knots. There is no need to speak: a connection is created naturally. We have still practiced shibari very little, but it is something I have always been drawn to. My favorite moment remains the one when Monsieur unties me. My wrists are still sensitive and he gently strokes them, taking the time to check that every part of my body is fine and has not been hurt. This moment of attention after the ropes is fully part of the experience for me. Thank you again, Monsieur, for creating this group. Vicky