How to approach a woman on social media such as Wishpride? 1. Avoid generic open
How to approach a woman on social media such as Wishpride? 1. Avoid generic opening lines Personally, when a man says “Hello, how are you?” or “Would you like to get to know each other?” I already know I won’t be interested. Why? Because in 99% of cases, he has nothing to say after those lines and therefore won’t manage to make me interested in him. 2. Stand out To avoid generic lines, talk about something the woman said either in her profile or in her posts. First of all, that shows that you can read and, believe it or not, it will make you stand out. Personally, I’m convinced that men are illiterate. Example: Hello, I saw your post on this topic and I’d like to know if we could go into it more deeply because... 3. Avoid statements and closed questions. There is nothing better for shutting down a conversation. For those who don’t know, a closed question is a question whose answer is only yes or no. As a result, the woman will answer you with that word and the conversation is over. The same goes for statements. 4. Make sure you end with an open question. Then you’ll see the conversation flow on its own Example: I saw that you live in Paris. Personally, I love the Trocadéro because you can go for a walk there. And you, what is your favorite place and why? 5. Avoid what I call an interrogation and start a conversation An interrogation is an endless series of questions that leads to no discussion. I’ve had: where do you live? how old are you? what are your passions? what do you do for work? And in the end, a remark: you don’t ask any questions. Of course, I’m facing a cop questioning me like I’m guilty. Here is what you should do: what are your passions? I watch a lot of Netflix. Ah, I saw this movie or this series recently and loved it. I really like that style. And you, what are you watching right now? I’m watching Dr House I’m a fan of that series, he’s twisted but brilliant, that guy. And it makes you wonder how he manages a team. And you, what do you like about that series? I love... And there you go, the conversation starts. 6. Listen to what the woman says and build on it This may seem logical, but you can’t imagine how many men don’t read and don’t listen. I had one yesterday who asked me how to make me feel at ease. I explain to him through conversation. And him? He finds nothing better to do than introduce himself and explain his life to me... Damn, I didn’t ask you to introduce yourself, I asked you to talk... Sometimes, I wonder if I speak the same language as the person in front of me. But doing things like that means forgetting your own desires and taking an interest in the other person. And as a woman, I’m starting to think that it’s like asking a man to reach for the moon. And yet, you’ll win a woman’s full interest by listening to her and doing what she says, not by doing what you interpreted... Anyway, those are my tips as a woman. In short: approach her with what she talked about, don’t flood her with questions, build on what she just said by giving your opinion, and always end with an open question. Believe it or not, after 7 years on social media, very few men apply these tips. But these rare men are the ones who caught my real attention and could possibly meet me. So, let’s see whether you want to be the one who gets turned away all the time or the one who wants to spark interest...
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