Hello, I’m going to talk about consent. In common prejudices, it is often believ

Hello, I’m going to talk about consent. In common prejudices, it is often believed that the submissive woman, who must obey her Master, cannot refuse him anything. That is not true. Consent is always present, whatever the situation! It is true that for slaves (extreme submission), consent tends to disappear. In reality, it does exist. I’m making a side note, but I’ll write a topic about that. There is indeed a difference between a submissive and a slave. In my view, the slave is a submissive in the extreme. Let’s come back to consent. Whatever the situation, the moment, the practice, the NO always exists. Depending on the relationship, the no may disappear but be replaced by a system of colors or a word. Depending on the degree of the color or the word, the submissive makes her no heard and the Master must respect it. The most common is what is called the safe word. It is defined by the submissive and of course must be a word outside the context of submission. This word ends not the practice but the session. In other words, when the submissive says it, the Master must stop everything. The best thing is to discuss and understand what happened in order to understand why that word was spoken. The safeword is also defined for the slave. If I sum up: - either there is the no that ends the practice, but the session can continue - or there is a system of colors or degrees that ends the practice, or even the session In all cases, the safeword is defined and ends the session. In a healthy relationship, a dialogue must be established between the two partners in order to understand and make sure that for the next sessions, things go as smoothly as possible